Your Attachment Style Defines How You Love... and Live.

Attachment Styles are so much more than texting habits or how often you say "I love you". They're the hidden force shaping how you experience love, handle life's ups & downs, and see your own worth.

They drive your deepest fears, dictate the partners you attract, and even what you prioritize in life.

Your attachment style shapes how you talk to yourself, how you respond to challenges, and how proactive you are in building the life of your dreams.

At The Heartbreak Academy, this isn’t about labels or superficial fixes. It’s about understanding why you feel and behave the way you do and breaking free from the patterns that hold you back. 

I'm Marta, and I Help People Have More Secure Relationships.

For years, I was stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships – from overthinking everything, questioning my worth, and chasing men who made me feel unseen and "too much". I thought I just needed to try harder, love deeper, and help them change to make things work.

But what I didn’t realize was that my attachment style was running the show. I finally understood how my attachment style shaped my fears, needs, and beliefs... and everything changed.

I stopped blaming myself and trying to change men who didn't see my value. I got my confidence and self-worth back. Learnt how to self-regulate, set boundaries, and build secure, fulfilling connections—starting with the relationship with myself.

Now, I’m here to help you do the same. 

I combine actionable, evidence-based strategies, and the hard-earned lessons of my own journey as an extreme case of anxious attachment. I’ve helped hundreds of people heal their attachment wounds, master emotional regulation, and recognize their worth.

I know how it feels to be stuck, but I also know it’s possible to break free. You can transform your relationships—and your life—and I’m here to show you how.

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